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jrtom ([personal profile] jrtom) wrote2010-03-15 11:18 am
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announcement

Sometime around mid-August, [livejournal.com profile] tiedyechameleon and I will be having another child.

Current data are not conclusive, but we're fairly sure that it will either be a boy or a hermaphrodite. :) There's more to say about that, but for right now I'm just making this quick announcement so that I don't put it off any longer.

(If anyone is wondering whether we're planning on stopping here, it may (or may not) be informative to know that the child's nickname is "Encore".)

[identity profile] pocketnaomi.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations!

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 09:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks!

[identity profile] judovitch.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
CONGRATULATIONS!!!

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 09:42 pm (UTC)(link)
THANKS!!!

[identity profile] karjack.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations! :D

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks! 8D

[identity profile] miladycarol.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Congrats!

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Thx!
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[identity profile] vito-excalibur.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations!

(and another vote for "Warning:virile!" as your warning label!"

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks!

...so who is that particular warning label supposed to be _for_, exactly? :S

[identity profile] zandperl.livejournal.com 2010-03-15 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations! Is there reason to suspect an intersex child, or are you being facetious?

FWIW it's my understanding that "hermaphrodite" is both medically/biologically incorrect (since "hermaphrodite" means able to fill both the male and female role in reproduction and this is not true of intersex humans), and is considered an offensive term to the intersex community (similar to terms like faggot, kike, nigger, or chink).

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-16 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
No, we don't have any reason to suspect that that might be the case.

It was not my intent to be offensive; I should hope that anyone that is reading this would be aware of that. I don't have any personal knowledge of whether hermaphroditism is biologically possible in humans or not, but "hermaphrodite" in that sense is what I meant to (jokingly) say. I don't have a clear understanding of what "intersex" means (although arguably I should).

[identity profile] zandperl.livejournal.com 2010-03-16 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
It was meant as a head's up, not an "OMG I'M SO OFFENDED!!!!!111onelleventy!" and I presumed it was not your intent to offend anyone.

I'm not sure how I found out about it the intersex community, maybe through reading about infant circumcision? But apparently intersex is any case where an individual does not fit into the clear biological binary sex options of [female sex characteristics and XX] or [male sex characteristics and XY]. There's a lot of info at the Intersex Society of North America website.

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-17 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah. Thanks for the info. Sounds like hermaphroditism would be a special case of intersex from your description, but I understand that language can be important, especially for groups whose members are susceptible to marginalization and/or harassment.

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-16 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, and thanks. :)

[identity profile] amnesiadust.livejournal.com 2010-03-16 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
omedetou gozaimasu!

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-17 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
arigato gozaimasu!

[identity profile] gwyd.livejournal.com 2010-03-16 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations!

[identity profile] jrtom.livejournal.com 2010-03-17 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks!