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http://www.wired.com/culture/lifestyle/commentary/sexdrive/2007/04/sexdrive_0427?currentPage=1

(Not really _not_ safe for work, but the title does prominently include the word "SEX" in large friendly letters.)

An interesting commentary on the psychology and sociology of sexual behavior.

A possibly revealing pair of questions:
(1) Would you describe yourself as "normal" to your friends?
(2) Would you describe yourself as such in a personals ad?

Update: I wasn't really trying to get people to answer the above questions, but the nature of the responses is interesting. I'm completely unsurprised that some of my friends would happily self-identify as "not normal"--hell, I would.

But that just comes back to the original question from a different direction: what is it that people are trying to convey when they say "normal"? Why do the people writing those ads feel a need to reassure their possible respondents that aside from their kink, they're "normal"? Why do some of my friends and I think that it's cool to _not_ be normal?
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via some random chain of LJers that probably involved [livejournal.com profile] zandperl, [livejournal.com profile] rosefox, and [livejournal.com profile] the_xtina, a couple of provocative essays on sexuality and relationships by [livejournal.com profile] divalion:

No More Mr. Nice Guy, or, as I like to call it, "Nice Guys vs. nice guys".

I have to admit that I have from time to time manifested some aspects of the Nice Guys she describes.

Bi Bi, Baby: the problem of bi girls, explored in a way which has relevance to more general issues of sexuality and relationships.

Both of these essays involve Anglo-Saxon monosyllables which are often thought to be crude if not profane, so they may be NSFW.

The 'tude and ability at writing, at least, reminds me somewhat of [livejournal.com profile] naudiz. (And, come to think of it, [livejournal.com profile] vito_excalibur. And [livejournal.com profile] red_frog, although the style is different. I think I'm seeing a pattern here. :) ) Definitely worth reading.
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Romance of the Jedi (WMV)

Now I _really_ need to see Bare^H^H^Hrokeback Mountain...

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